tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28507734.post4247364577830818687..comments2023-10-24T08:15:11.974-05:00Comments on Todd: Thursday nights group meetingToddhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02952900140094732272noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28507734.post-87829893579102089902013-07-20T20:54:55.066-05:002013-07-20T20:54:55.066-05:00I know you do, but it's still great to be remi...I know you do, but it's still great to be reminded every so often. I care about you too!Toddhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02952900140094732272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28507734.post-29526110243870336142013-07-20T20:54:51.324-05:002013-07-20T20:54:51.324-05:00I know you do, but it's still great to be remi...I know you do, but it's still great to be reminded every so often. I care about you too!Toddhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02952900140094732272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28507734.post-88854535832556454752013-07-20T15:06:52.649-05:002013-07-20T15:06:52.649-05:00Wow, judging my writing skills of last night I mus...Wow, judging my writing skills of last night I must have been a little more buzzed than I realized. I am glad you found worth in my meaning.<br />And we DO care.They are not awarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16828356650029285500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28507734.post-19107935366398198252013-07-19T23:49:43.395-05:002013-07-19T23:49:43.395-05:00You make an awesome point about just trying not to...You make an awesome point about just trying not to think of her because of she doesn't have a body is kind of disrespectful. Hadn't thought it quite like that. Thanks again. Damn you're good! :)Toddhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02952900140094732272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28507734.post-92183832727330470282013-07-19T23:46:47.431-05:002013-07-19T23:46:47.431-05:00As would of course happen, those are great suggest...As would of course happen, those are great suggestions which I'll delve deeper into. Wow, so that's why it's good to "get it out". There's always the thought in the furthest back of my mind of "why would anyone care? If I'd stop caring a little less about 'the small things' that seem huger some days then others, then I'll stop counting each and every day and connect several great days in a row. My friends are really helping me. Thank you!Toddhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02952900140094732272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28507734.post-52934101711257295192013-07-19T20:03:41.755-05:002013-07-19T20:03:41.755-05:00Aw Todd,
I know somewhat of what you are talking ...Aw Todd, <br />I know somewhat of what you are talking about. The loss of a dog, even a "best dog in the world" dog, does not compare to the loss of a spouse. But I dealt with the same issue, even the best memories hurt too bad to remember. It was easier just to not think about . At some point I realized how unfair it was to the deceased to not be thought about in a good way. I am sure that the spirit of the deceased understands the pain involved but it still seems unfair after a certain point. <br />Until you have reached that point when you can spend time with the memories without crushing pain, may I suggest the first time you held one of your kids? Or sometime when you taught one of them something that they then accomplished on their own? Like riding a bike or tying shoes, even something like the first time the first time E peed standing up like a guy? Or sometime when you made it to the next level in a video game that you had been having trouble getting through? <br />I hope some f this helps.They are not awarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16828356650029285500noreply@blogger.com